She Deserves It! 12 Luxuries Women Are Treating Themselves To On the Down Low


Life can be overwhelming. We all have busy schedules, work long hours, and never seem to find enough time in the day for ourselves. 

What if we told you there is a way to make some moments of your day extra special without making drastic changes? 

It turns out that many women are indulging in little luxuries on their own terms at home, during a quiet weekend morning, or an evening binging TV. 

From the comfort of their couch, they’re finding secret avenues into big rewards: guilt-free mini indulgences just for them! 

Whether treating yourself to manicure-from-home kits or renting designer clothes, these are revolutionary new ways for women (and men!) today to sneak away and improve their quality of life, and She Deserves It! 

Here are 12 luxury secrets that real women choose when they want something special.

1. Not Checking Price Tags

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It can be liberating to buy something without first checking the price tag.

Don’t feel guilty about opting for a more expensive item that makes you feel better, you deserve it!

Remember, this isn’t about getting something expensive every time, it’s about prioritizing quality over quantity when the opportunity arises.

2. Making Small Investments in Yourself

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It can be difficult to make big changes in your life if they require a hefty financial investment. 

That’s why it’s important to invest in small ways that will make you feel better on a daily basis. 

This could be anything from an indulgent bubble bath with the best-smelling soap to a box of luxurious chocolates.

3. Having a High Credit Score

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There’s usually a correlation between financial independence and a high credit score.

For women who have both, nothing is more satisfying than checking their credit score and seeing that it’s sky-high.

I don’t know what feels better — seeing it slowly inch up month after month or checking it daily to ensure it’s still at a stratospheric level.

4. Having a Metal Credit Card

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Let’s be honest: Is anything more satisfying than placing your metal credit card on the counter at a store and hearing that incredible “clunk” sound?

That’s the sound of success! In 2023, the metal credit card — popularized by the Chase Sapphire card, Amazon Prime card, and American Express gold card — became a status symbol for millions of women. 

5. Weekly Grocery Store Trips

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For women who grew up without money, weekly scheduled trips to the supermarket genuinely feel like they’ve finally won the lottery.

“I feel rich when I make weekly grocery shopping at normal times — not before the store closes so we get a good sale for average quality, and not looking at prices in the grocery store or having a list,” reveals one woman.

6. Not Checking Your Bank Account Before Making a Purchase

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Whether it’s because some people grew up poor or weren’t responsible with money at a young age, many women confess that not checking their bank accounts before buying something is the ultimate feeling of being rich.

I don’t blame them — it signifies confidence, stress-free living, and success.

7. Wearing Expensive Perfume

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Owning at least one high-end luxury item makes women feel rich, whether they purchase a designer handbag or expensive perfume.

“Knowing you own something from Versace or Gucci is a nice feeling,” explains one woman. “I can’t buy anything else from those stores, though.”

8. Being Able to Cover Unexpected Expenses

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Emergencies happen, and having a sufficiently-stocked emergency fund can mean the difference between your financial situation being stable and going into considerable debt.

Many women confess being able to cover these unforeseen events makes them feel rich in more ways than one. 

9. Bills Being Paid Automatically

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Here’s a sign you are rich — or at least feel rich: All your bills are paid monthly via autopay.

When you know you’ll always have enough money in your account to pay your bills, the piece of mind that accompanies that fact is immensely satisfying. 

10. Monthly Manicures and Pedicures

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Taking care of your hands and feet is at the forefront of many women’s minds, and being able to schedule treatments monthly is a total game-changer!

“Being able to get my nails done every month is something that blows my mind,” confesses one woman. “It might be stupid, but it was an unattainable luxury for me.”

11. Having a Full Pantry

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For countless people, growing up poor meant always being hungry and scouring for food in near-empty pantries, cupboards, and refrigerators.

One of the most common revelations of feeling rich is looking at the food available in the kitchen — women (and men, for that matter) equate plenty of food with plenty of success!

12. Traveling

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For many, traveling the world is the ultimate signifier of feeling rich — even if you aren’t traditionally wealthy.

“Being able to travel and experience new cultures, traditions, and nature makes me feel rich in many ways — even if I stay in a hostel and share a room with ten people!” exclaims one excited traveler.

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Being financially independent means not having to worry about money ever again.

You can choose to work if you want to, and spend money as you wish. But how do you get there? Here are the steps you need to take.


47 Ways to Get Free Gift Cards

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Nowadays, people are looking for every means possible to make extra cash.

One unique idea is to get free gift cards. Gift cards are a great way to help pay for the things you need without spending any money. You can earn free gift cards for completing simple tasks in many ways.

This includes getting paid for simple online tasks like playing games, completing surveys, and shopping.

Here is a complete guide on how to get free gift cards so you can spend less money on the things you buy.


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The trick is finding the right one for you.


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But while it feels difficult, don’t let this stop you. Here is how you can save $100,000 in nine steps.

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I Need Money Now

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Do you every say to yourself, ‘I need money now?’

Whether it is for bills or unexpected expenses, here is how to get cash fast. In many cases, you can have cash in your hands the same day.


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